It's almost New Years, little sweetheart. I'm writing this sitting by the beautiful Christmas tree near the mantel in your parents's front room where our Christmas stockings, yours and mine, hang next one another.
At home over my desk along with lots of pictures of you and several of
your little handwritten cards to me framed so I may always have them
near, are two little notes to myself. One says "it's good to get things
done - remember that." And today has been one of those kind of days.
I woke up to California birdsong and dreams of you to guide me on this
last day of the year. I made the bed and went down to make coffee and
get things started - I wanted to make some nice things for your mom and
dad. Last year on New Year's Eve I made beef stroganoff and they really
liked it, so I got everything to make it again. New Year's Eve day is
actually the sixth day of Christmas also - I forget what that is in the
song, maybe swans a swimming? - so, I'd made cookie dough the night
before for a whole new batch of Christmas cookies. I got the coffee
going and then started baking.
First, a graham cracker crust for that cherry cream cheese pie your dad
likes and then I started on the cookies. The kitchen smelled really good
with the molasses ginger baking away and the fresh coffee. Your mom
came down and had a cup and we looked after the kittens and cocker
spaniel who were curious about all the activity. Once had all the
cookies done and cooling on the counter and the cold pie chilling in the
fridge and all the dishes done, I changed into my gear and went for a
It was kind of a perfect day for running- cool but not cold, a bit
overcast and foggy. I was out for about an hour and then had a shower,
got the laundry in and started in on the stroganoff. Ilsa, one of the
kittens, was terribly interested in that. Especially when I was cutting
up the sirloin. It takes quite a while getting everything going in
separate pots and pans until it all comes together in one big pot at the
end with the noodles. I made a salad and frosted the cookies during a
couple points of waiting during the prep and had that BBC Radio 6 show
with our friends Low on the whole time - it's sort of been the
soundtrack this season.
By the time everything was done it was actually just about dinner time.
Your mom had an idea to watch an old mini series that she had on DVD -
"Rich Man, Poor Man". We put that on after dinner and before dessert and
somewhere around episode 3, we started to hear fireworks outside. It
was cold and crisp when we went out interesting the garden to look. It
reminded me of Guy Fawkes Day in London because it wasn't like just one
big "official" display but half a dozen separate ones in different parts
of the sky from all over. When we turned to go back inside, we could see the
kittens up on their perch by the window looking out at us with great
And that's when I stepped in here to write all this down to you, little
sweetheart and to tell you how much I love and miss you and so want to
be with you in The Forever. I hope you'll come for me soon, maybe taking
me in my sleep, so that I wake in your arms and find everything is
finally again the way it should be. I know I must wait patiently until
that day. I know I must do my best and listen quietly for your
instruction. I know, as that one little note to myself says and as I did
today, that "it's good that get things done". And I know, as the other
little note says, that I "feel better when I'm a good boy" and to
remember that, too.
May I do both in this new year to come. May I do the things that you
want me to, work harder at becoming the man you were helping me to
become, to grow my heart and learn, to honor and to conjure you. And to
listen quietly for everything you have to tell me, so that I'm ready to
go when you call. Please come for me soon, my love. It's all I want in
the whole world- just to be with you. Forever. With all my love...